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How Porn Can Ruin Your Sex Life

Always young. Always beautiful. Always new. Porn keeps dopamine surging in the brain. But at what point does chronic stimulation become chronic dissatisfaction? If you’re married and using Internet...

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Can’t She See I Need It?

Many men and women in long-term relationships are unhappy with the frequency they have sex. How can couples re-sync their desires? According to a report in the March issue of The Journal of Sex &...

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Lust in Translation: Every Woman Is Horny in Her Own Way

This is a response to Noah Brand’s “The Myth: Men Are Horny, Women Are Not.” Men and women are wonderfully different. In fact, the more variety of strengths, interests, and other characteristics that...

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Learn to Love Your Libido

 Ever feel ashamed of your sexual desires? Noah Brand talks about how to move past those feelings and trust your lust. Long ago, I heard a legend of a Sunday School teacher who taught the kids in her...

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Masculine Sexuality: What Gets Overlooked

Dr. Ley argues that the oft-blamed trope of “sex addiction” isn’t real. Almost anywhere you turn these days, if a man’s sexuality is news, it is usually news in a bad way. In the media, when a man...

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Should I Leave My Sexless Marriage?

Advice from YourTango about what to do when the love is still there but the sex has left the building. This article originally appeared at YourTango. When you said your wedding vows, was there...

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Dear John: His Low Libido Is Bringing Her Down

This week Dear John addresses a low libido, a son’s discovery of porn, and a self-conscious, protective partner. This article originally appeared at GoLocalProv.com. Dear John, I have kind of the...

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“The subtext: men are sex-crazed maniacs and women aren’t supposed to like sex.”

This is a comment by Sarah on the post “The Truth about Porn and Relationships“. Sarah said: “I don’t have kids but actually my libido has diminished a bit  as I’ve gotten older.  I used to want sex...

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Can Men Tell The Truth About Sex?

Where are the male voices debating contemporary sexuality? No, really, where are they? I read a very interesting BBC article recently. The author, Sarah Dunant, spends some time outlining her own...

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“The lower-libido person still has some responsibility. Being less interested...

These are comments by Ulysses and wellokaythen on the post “On Withholding Sex“. Ulysses said: “When there is a libido disparity, there can be a temptation to over-complicate the situation. New couples...

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“My wife’s libido dropped while mine was strong, and we wanted to make it...

This is a comment by Arium on the post “On Withholding Sex“. Arium said: “I’ve seen a lot of skepticism about communications in the comments, often in the form of “What good would that do?” You might...

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Six Creepy Assumptions In “Five Things Men Do To Ruin Their Own Sex Lives”

Noah Brand responds, point by point, to a recent Cracked article that provides relationship advice for some kind of disturbing alternate world. Before I start getting mean, full disclosure: I greatly...

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F*ck Club

“The first rule about F*ck Club is: you don’t blog about F*ck Club.” I am Jack’s Nightmares. I show up either just before or right after my cousin Insomnia manifests, in those elusive moments when she...

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How Much Sex is Too Much Sex?

D.A. Wolf gets into the question everyone wonders about and nobody wants to be the first to ask. Come on. It never really gets old, does it? The subject of sex – who’s doing it, how they’re doing it,...

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Losing My Libido: One Man’s Story

Amit Wehle awakens to face the loss of his gradual diminishing sex drive. The folk classic “Where Have all Flowers Gone” is often credited to Joan Baez, but it was actually written by Pete Seeger back...

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Is Being “Rock Hard” Worth Risking Your Life?

Male sexual performance supplements are largely unregulated, yet may contain dangerous drugs not listed on the label. We all get those junk emails for supplements that claim to do everything from help...

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Open Thread: Unexpected Turn-Ons

What’s surprised you about your own tastes? We think we know ourselves, but there are always surprises. And nothing surprises us about ourselves like an unexpected corner of our libidos. Sometimes...

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Male Bodies and Objectification

When women objectify men’s bodies, how does that affect our cultural concepts of desire and agency? I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again: I love Pinterest. I know I am not alone in this. It is my...

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“As a transgendered person, I can no longer deny that one simple chemical can...

He takes a hand at bridge and has difficulty in keeping his mind on the game, with the result that he repeatedly trumps his partners tricks. — This comment of the day is from Eli, on the post An Open...

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Depression, Drugs and Loss of Libido

Your antidepressant might be affecting your sex drive and the state of your marriage.  ___ As the stigma around talking about mental health issues slowly disappears (too slowly, for my liking, but...

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